You're okay in my book, Red! Those of us that have served in naval aviation can appreciate and admire a man of your training, experience and stature.
Hand....SALUTE....two. Carry on.
my Sis in Law was an asst adminstrator in a local home for a good bit,
good money, but stressful and depressing,
anyhoo,
she had a patient that was fairly mobile , and liked porn, so he was in a private room with his own furniture, TV etc, and would get folks to sneak him in some x rated videos now and again,
once his pump was primed, so to speak , they would often see him sneaking out and down to a few womens rooms for some action,
he had plenty of willing partners