Something is wrong with the site and I don't understand what. It is using a huge amount of resources and I am not good enough with either php or MySQL databases to find out what or how to fix it. I am hoping you all ask friends and relatives and as them to ask around too to see if we can find someone with the necessary skills who is willing to volunteer some time to go through the scripts and database and find the problem. The only options GoDaddy had is either upgrade the site yet again, which is out of the question, or to hire a professional fixer, also not happening. Until we get it fixed we are on borrowed time, so I am in hopes that someone can find us a competent volunteer.
Thanks!
Pat